Do you think men in America have it socially worse off that women?

I don't think that either has it worse than the other. Their will always be people on either side throwing off their reasons for having it harder in life and ironically when the argument arises they also use those reasons to say that's why they are better. it's a never ending conflict. one party says "oh we are naturally stronger therefor better" and then they say "why should i be expecting to build muscles and be forced to do heavy lifting?" see the error there? Both es have their and in this day and age both es are perfectly capable of conquering those obstacles.